I am excited to engage a community which lives beyond one’s life. This mean person not thinking in their own world. In my theme ” Happy Healthy Life”, shifts paradigm of ‘staying‘ within the mind of oneself and acknowledging the ideology of give-take, learning, sharing and developing from other minds.
My name is Thomas or the short form Tom. Since my early childhood, i have seen and experienced ‘Two Worlds’, – the world of haves and haves-not. The haves has a benefit of living in many ways considering the resources – financial, influence, knowledge – they have acquired and made them look better. On the other hand, the haves-not live in a world where they are craving for benefits in their life in various ways.
I came from a humble background where my family and myself toiled to improve our livelihood. This was not that easy, we had to invest lots of time hardworking to clinch another level. Luckily, my handwork (and other family members) paid off and i was able to afford the basics of life and some decent education. During these times i integrated enormously with people who struggled to make ends meet and acquired the experience of what it meant to improve the basic living standard.
My affordability in education meant that i had to change location and share moments with other people in different environments. I was able to share with haves-not, middle haves and haves who made to reach to a high school. In my experience, i noted there were differences in life for the separate categories in their way of thinking, lifestyles and goals. This changed my perception and the way of relating to each distinct category so as to best fit the community.
The questions that lingered in my mind were why people from similar background had the same mindset that allowed themselves not to ‘loosen’ up to accommodate others who were from different backgrounds. For me, since i had acquired the interpersonal relationship skills with the distinct groups, i was able to gain some insight on people’s way of thinking and improve my understanding on why things happen the way they do.
WHY I WANT TO HELP PEOPLE
I want to help people to have a well-thought-out happy life and share their ideas, thoughts and feelings that we possess or/and trying to acquire to have a blueprint of ‘Happy Healthy Life’. I believe by having a mutual discussion we will shift the paradigm of ‘lone rangers‘ to inclusive one where our life will be transitioned and have abundance and happiness. The most important thing is to interact and give an opinion on this path of health and happiness that would have a two-way ‘traffic’ resulting to WIN WIN situation.
THE GOAL OF MY SITE
The main goal of my site is to engage people to give, take, learn, share and contribute to happy life and therefore place an important meaning to happy living which we all strive for, although in essence, it seems to be elusive through modelling it to cater for the present situation.
I hope you enjoyed reading and if you have any question, opinion or comment, please feel free to post and I will soon get back to you.